by Pat Krushen

As our parents age, we, the baby boomer generation, are confronted with new challenges in being able to assure that their lives will remain as enjoyable as possible. How can we help our parents to make decisions that will be in their best interests? Are we ready for the physical, social, emotional and financial changes that will arise?

It is hard for us to accept our own aging process, and just as difficult for parents to accept that things that were, at one time, no problem at all, now present themselves as obstacles….things like driving a vehicle, doing ones own shopping, remembering daily events, and handling finances become more difficult and, in time, adequate nutrition, poor mobility and personal hygiene become reasons for concern.

While there are many products and solutions available, acceptance of the need for them is often the most difficult obstacle. As children there are some points we need to keep in mind when approaching the need for assistance:

• Begin by talking about their concerns long before the situation arises. They most certainly have thought about the future and have some fears of it.

• Speak to them as an adult speaking to adults - Do not talk down to them or treat them as children – they have their own pride and dignity

• Have reasonable expectations of their abilities to care for themselves

• Let them make as many decisions as possible themselves

• Be compassionate and understanding

• Be knowledgeable about the products and solutions that are available to accommodate their needs

As baby boomers, our own senior years are not far off. Remember that one day your own children will be facing the same issues as you are now. Think of how you would like to be approached – approach your parents in the same way.

About the Author

Pat Krushen is a former teacher and sign language interpreter, hugely aware of lifestyle limitations due to physical abilities. She is currently a web designer and free lance writer, now involved in the walk in bathtub industry.